Stories From Those We Serve: “Rita”

Arlington Bridge Builders coordinates several ministries, but we're not here just to give people food or teach them English. Instead, we want to develop meaningful relationships. Beginning with this newsletter, we'll share a brief personal story--often without resolution--from Marlen, our Care Coordinator, who takes time to listen, weep and pray with those we serve. And when possible, provide practical help. In Marlen's words: 

Mrs. "Rita" has turned this place (Mission Nova) into a personal refuge, a place she comes to at least three times a week in search of support. Through our conversations, she has shared the many challenges she faces with her children: her oldest son, raised in a Christian environment, drifted away after falling into bad company; her daughter, who is the family’s main source of income, struggles with vision problems; and her youngest son, "Esteban," was recently diagnosed with a debilitating disease.

She was unaware of his condition and believed her exhaustion was simply due to her age, not realizing the true reason behind her son’s demanding behavior. The language barrier, lack of understanding of the medical system, and lack of support have left her feeling frustrated and overwhelmed. Now a teenager, Esteban has experienced social rejection, isolates himself on his phone, and becomes aggressive when screen time is limited. His exposure to drugs led Rita to stop sending him to school, which resulted in legal intervention.

Following her lawyer’s recommendation, Rita has begun a deeper evaluation process for him. She often feels lost when navigating medical paperwork, scheduling appointments, and trying to access medication.

That’s why we’re here: to listen, to guide her, and to pray with her.

[Note: names have been changed for the story, but please pray for Rita and Esteban, and how we can help.]